From Betas to Alpha Men: How can women inspire more Alpha behavior?

On websites which focus on Game for men and pick-up artistry, all of the emphasis is on a man independently finding a way to be more “Alpha.”  The focus is on how a man can shape his own worldview and behavior to give off more dominance and leadership qualities.

I can’t recall EVER seeing any of these websites talk about how women can encourage more Alpha behavior from their men. 

I have a theory that there are some small ways to do this.  Some of the principles that I theorize might work are:

I. Be more feminine and he will complement you by being more masculine. If you appeal to a man’s basic instincts, more macho behavior may kick in.

II. Teach him how to treat you by rewarding masculine behavior. Make a clear link to the behavior you like to your behavior that will make him feel good.

III.  In your persona, create a world and environment where he feels comfortable to be all man, including making him feel like you’d accept him even as a slightly chauvinistic and old fashioned guy!

Some ideas on ways to do Principle I (be more woman so he can be more man):

• Move very slowly in general when walking and sitting so that he can step up the pace and lead you faster.  Seem slightly clueless even or distracted (good if you are distracted laughing at his jokes or listening to him, this would probably be a compliment to him?)
• Let your mind wander as much as you want (this is so easy for me).  This way he has to step in and bring you back to earth when you are not sure what to do or where you are.  Basically he will see you as fun and in the present, but needing his guidance and stuff.
• Be a slave to your weaknesses and whims!  For example: when you lose your balance let him catch you rather than catching yourself, let yourself get distracted by the cute puppy even though you are running late so he has to tell you hey let’s go we’ll be late (hopefully he will be amused by your preoccupation by such girly things), hesitate when going into a crowds and say you are afraid (so he will hopefully lead you right on through that mass of people), etc.
• Feel free to be as girly girl as you want to be!  Talk in a sweet, femmy voice and don’t be embarassed that someone will think you are dumb.  Wear your hair long and glamorous.  Wear pink and red and other bright girly colors.  Wear skirts even when others would wear jeans.  Wear heels and walk all over town in them. Don’t worry about being all girl; most guys who are real men deep down inside won’t think less of you.  Ignore the haters mainly women who will make snide remarks if they see you struggle walking on a grate with those heels or have to hold your dress down when the wind gusts; everyone else knows you look hot!

Some ideas on ways to do Principle II (encourage good manly behavior and discourage unmanly behavior)

• Compliment any manly thing he does, like picking out where to go, helping you get through that busy crowd, giving you directions because you keep on getting lost (as you let your mind wander naturally), telling you how to solve that issue, etc. 
• Major bonus points if you compliment or build him up in front of others for manly things like how good he is as picking menu items on new restaurants, or how he figured out how to connect the wireless speakers to your iphone in 5 minutes when you couldn’t in 5 hours, how he keeps on winning the office pool, how he like predicts what the press will say before stuff happens in the markets, etc.
• Physically position yourself so he is in a dominant position.  If you are sitting together, subtly try to be smaller.  If you are walking, make sure he is the leading one (unless he is being a gentleman and doing the ladies first thing, that part I haven’t figured out how to work around yet because I don’t want to force him to walk in first because that’s leading), if you are embracing each other sink into his big chest, look up at him with adoration and look at his big size if he puffs himself up, etc.
• When he does something feminine, like show weakness at getting hurt, I’m not sure what’s best.  I would say either letting your mind and person wander right out his sight, or even showing subtle disgust or surprise, might be the way to go.  Like if there’s a bug and he freaks out and starts cowering behind you, that’s really BAD; I would probably leave him and run behind him and be like “please please protect me” and one-up him on the girliness!  At all costs do NOT decide to step in the man role for him; that will just encourage him to be girly man more.  I could be wrong on this though; I think it depends on the specific thing he is doing that is feminine, which is open to interpretation.  Like if he cries when he hears his friend from school got killed in Iraq, that’s not feminine; but if he cries when a bird flies into the windshield unless he had a pet bird that looked the exact same way when he was a kid that someone ran over, that’s probably feminine.

Some ideas on how to do Principle III (create an environment around you where he feels fully comfortable being all man):

• This is going to be controversial to say, but honestly: do not ever praise feminism or women who are ‘strong’ in a more masculine sense.  Praise women and men who show traditional gender roles.  For example, if Obama does something where he leads his whole family, even say “How nice he is so the leader of the nation and his girls too,” or something.  I can’t think of good ways to do this without being cheesy, but hopefully on the fly all girls aspiring to this will recognize the opportunity!
• Feel free to mention, when appropriate and it comes up, how you like girly things or like traditional values, or values in other cultures where people follow traditional gender roles.  Don’t be super obvious about it because someone who talks too much about this stuff looks suspicious especially if their actions don’t reflect these beliefs.  And it’s kind of weird to talk about and a little bit of a touchy and controversial subject in this very politically correct world we are in today.  But mentioning them indirectly might help.  One example:  I talk about how Indian men tend to be very possessive, and I find it funny when many American girls will say a guy I’m seeing seems controlling because I grew up with male family members who treat me the same way and am used to it!  To me it just seems like “possessive” guys just want to make sure I’m OK and take care of me…
• Be a girly girl, let him be the man and do manly stuff like open doors, lift heavy things, figure things out, etc.

I’m going to experiment in my life and see how much of all this works.  I have a feeling I do many of these things subconsciously any way, because I feel like most men I meet are pretty manly; the degrees of manliness are what vary.