Average-Looking vs. Pretty “Alpha Females”

 I came across the blog of a self-described Alpha Female the other day.


I think she is very pretty. From pictures alone I can believe she has GirlGame. Further confirmation came when I read about her being recruited to entertain celebrities in Vegas. P.S.  I really like her blog in general, it’s great!

source: helloamanda.com

So I decided to Google around for other self-described Alpha Females. Oh. My. Goodness.

I was shocked at how, frankly, average-looking some of these “Alpha Females” were.  Some of these girls were trying to give out love advice too.

I won’t be mean and post their pictures or blog links here. But you can run a search and click through a few of the links to see what I mean (hint: this includes video results).

But… what if a true Alpha Female is the type of girl who can really overshoot her league? I’m not talking about a temporary thing, I mean getting the lasting commitment of a quality guy, despite looking average (if that).

Am I being overly critical here?  These “hot” girls might have good advice but it’s hard to take them seriously when they don’t seem to have the “maximize your beauty” part down that well.

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15 Responses to “Average-Looking vs. Pretty “Alpha Females””

  1. Amanda Says:

    😉 Thanks for the post I am glad I an Alpha Approved by you ha ha 🙂

  2. Michael Says:

    One of my sister’s friends was obese, unattractive, obnoxious and self absorbed. Yet in life, she had a six figure job, big house, husband etc. She suffered from self esteem issues. Her self esteem was too high relative to her attributes.

    So what makes a woman alpha? I think a true alpha woman would be very physically attractive, but I do know that women can trade up in the sexual marketplace the way they have for centuries, with the lure of seduction and emotional entanglement, for which they are much better equipped than men.

    Think “1001 Nights” where the Arabian princess staves off execution through storytelling, leaving each nights story at a climactic point that compels the king to keep her around. Now she had game!

    • lovelysexybeauty Says:

      Interesting comment. I think many of the same issues that come up with the term Alpha Male apply to the Alpha Female term. In animal studies it usually meant the leader within the small family/pack of animals. Many Pick-Up Artists say an Alpha is a guy who can get lots of the best-quality (best-looking) women.

      I think you make a good point that some women can use other qualities to compete against more attractive women. Despite what some of the PUA sites will argue, a famous supermodel “8” like Gisele will get the commitment (which is key for women) of a more “Alpha” guy than your local neighborhood 9/10. Girls like Gisele bring someone more to the table… whether it is fame, similar life experiences, exuberant sexiness, or whatever.

      Many PUA/Venusian Artists would argue that is absolutely not true however, and that GirlGame doesn’t exist… GirlGame being the art of maximizing your appeal to men in order to get commitment (again, they key!).

  3. Jamila Says:

    I think part of the reason why these women are Alpha (or atleast consider themselves Alpha) is because they realize that even without maximized beauty there are things that many man consider more important than looks. Amazing looks may get you in the door but you have to have a certain je ne sais quo to be permitted to stay.

    Looks are important, but they aren’t everything. Even the most shallow Alpha male won’t commit to an empty-headed bimbo for life.

  4. Capo Says:

    Do you really think Gisele is an 8? More like 8+2.

    Kate Moss, OTOH…

    • lovelysexybeauty Says:

      My opinion: Gisele is mostly is striking due to charisma, not looks. Next to Adriana Lima and even Miranda Kerr, I don’t think she strikes one as the prettier one. Stand her next to a younger Monica Belucci, perhaps the most universal 10, and she won’t seem to be the same level.

      Scientific studies indicate the most beautiful female face is usually the most feminized, right? (But sexiest faces I don’t think are the most girly babyfaced; expression and charisma seem to matter more.)
      So pretty, femmy faces have:
      – Big expressive eyes or sexy cat/almond eyes: Gisele’s eys are smallish
      – Big full pouty lips: Giesel’s lips are average-sized
      – Full youthful cheeks; face in the shape of an inverted triangle (small chin, bigger forehead and cheeks): Giesele is quite angular, and her face isn’t particularly heart shaped

      Body-wise, Gisele has a nice rack and very loooong legs, but I don’t think she has the perfect waist-hip ratio otherwise.

      But… Gisele is uniqe in that she’s a “surprising beauty.” Despite a large-ish nose and angular features, she communicates something with her face and body which is appealing.

      I don’t get the Kate Moss fascination, but now she represents a certain hobo “look” so perhaps is striking for that. Otherwise kind of weird wide set and spacey eyes.

  5. Capo Says:

    I understand your point. I notice, however, that you put a lot of weight on her face with relatively negative assessments. To me, her face is fine.

    If I had to point to one thing why young Monica Bellucci > Gisele it would be that Gisele’s behind is a little small. Since Gisele is a catwalk model, that’s somehow expected.

    Other than that, she’s as fine as young MB in my book. My assessment would be young MB = 10 vs young Gisele = 9.5. The whole lips and eyes thing I don’t really notice.

    If you want to check a present-day 10, check Candice Swanepoel.

    • lovelysexybeauty Says:

      Gisele is pretty and very striking. With a perfect 10 I think it would be hard to find a single “flaw” compared to the ideals of female beauty. So I can’t find a single thing wrong with Monica Bellucci’s face… same with Candice Swanepoel. She’s perfectly gorgeous!

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